Are you still searching for a partner to share your life with? Have you ever wondered if there really is a simple way to attracting your soul mate? Well, affirmations for love are a highly effective way to finally attract romance. They do require a few minutes practise every day, but the result is certainly worth the small amount of time invested.
By using affirmations daily, you will begin to change the way you talk to yourself and these changes to your inner dialogue will transform your belief system. These changes to your belief system will influence the way you interact with people and this in turn attracts into your life the people and circumstances that will fulfil your affirmations.
Have you ever experienced that strong need of wanting to be with someone, just to feel loved and secure? Have you ever wondered how to attract your soul mate? Well, finding true love is possible using affirmations. However, affirmations should never be taken for granted as only well constructed ones have the power to change your life.
You may not believe it at the moment, but finding true love is not just a dream, but can become your reality. You do actually possess the power to attract your perfect partner and have the type of relationship that you have always dreamed of. So continue reading to discover the three things that a well constructed love affirmation must contain to be effective.
Be Clear About What You Want And Who You Need To Become
Before you construct your affirmations, you must be very clear about the type of person you wish to attract. Finding your perfect partner does require a little work and you must be very specific about the type of person that you are looking for.
Once you have completed this step, you then need to examine yourself and ask what characteristics you need to change so that you can attract the type of person you want to build a meaningful relationship with.
Many people find it an easy task to list the characteristics of their perfect partner, but find it extremely difficult to create the necessary changes within themselves, so that their characteristics are congruent with the person they wish to attract.
But ask yourself, would a confident, happy person build a meaningful relationship with someone who is not confident and totally miserable?
So look at yourself in the mirror, and ask, what characteristics should you improve or change so that you are attractive to your ideal soul mate? When you have identified them, you are ready to construct your affirmations to finally find your perfect partner.
Construct Your Love Affirmations
To produce results, your affirmations must be written in the first person and as if the affirmation is already happening. They must also contain the characteristics that you have decided your ideal soul mate will have, as well as the characteristics that you will have so that your perfect partner will be attracted to you.
So if you want to meet someone who’s self-confident and ambitious your love affirmations could be:
“Because I have self-confidence and ambitious, it is natural for me attract confident and ambitious women/men.”
“I am assertive and confident, therefore I attract assertive and confident women/men.”
“Ambitious, confident women are attracted to me because I’m an ambitious, confident man.”
Initially, your affirmations might sound absurd, especially if you already have so many negative thoughts about yourself or due to bad experiences in your previous relationships.
However, affirmations slowly but surely change your belief system, until those beliefs become instilled in you. Changes to your belief system will produce changes in your life because of what is known as cognitive dissonance.
Cognitive dissonance is the misalignment between a person’s beliefs and actions. This discomfort causes the person to change their actions until they naturally align with their beliefs.
Repetition, Repetition, Repetition
The third and final step is to constantly practise your affirmations for love daily. Take time every day to repeat your affirmations out loud, preferably looking into the mirror. Ideally do this in the morning and in the evening.
You could create a Mind Movie, a video of images related to your affirmations, and load it onto your computer. Instead of practising your affirmations out loud in front of the mirror, you could simply watch your Mind Movie video to focus your thoughts on your perfect partner.
Practise your affirmations every day, and after a month, you will notice that they have begun to become part of your belief system. Subsequently, your actions will start to align with your beliefs and it won’t be long before you attract your soul mate, someone you will be able to build a meaningful relationship with.